Frequently Asked Questions, My Blog

My writing process is fueled by the extremes of life, of which I am in steady supply. When I am drowning in discouragement, and conversely, when I am basking in gratitude, writing stabilizes me. It helps me to understand my emotions, my feelings, and my fears when they are too big and convoluted for my brain to untangle. Writing helps me to remember the good and the bad, so that I am prepared for whatever life throws at me next.

I started blogging when my daughter was diagnosed with cancer through Caringbridge. That led me to write a book called Daughter of Promise (the link is above.)  I would love to pursue writing articles and creating graphic novels in the future . I also have a thriller in the works.

  It's anguish paired with glee-just like other families. Our ups and downs are just bigger.

It's being that mom in Walmart that everyone is staring at and whispering about. It's being that mom who has to make her son's friends for him because he can't make friends for himself. It's shame and exhaustion and confusion and judgement. It's tough. So, it makes you tough. 

 I didn't get officially diagnosed with ADHD and begin treatment until July of 2023. Suddenly, there were twice as many hours in the day. I could wait my turn in conversations. My thoughts started collecting themselves into a more coherent pattern. They still don't follow a straight line. But, at least now, I am better able to connect them. 

                              As for the panic disorder, it still sucks.

No. As it turns out mental illness is highly genetic. Let me drop a PSA here-If you have extended family members that are "unique", be prepared to have children that are "unique." If you marry someone whose family is peppered with mental illness, cross your fingers.

No. My challenges keep me humble. Ever tried caring for a child with autism? Expect three hour tantrums on a routine basis, and hostage negotiation tactics every morning before school. You learn to be creative and very, very patient. 

What about a bipolar teen? No sleep for days at a time, rages, substance abuse disorders, suicidal ideation-it's not for the faint of heart. Still, I am grateful for this life. There is nothing in the world that could have taught me as much as being a part of my bipolar family.